i was raised in a high pressure household and school was always always the pause. im only 23 now but im still struggling to figure out who i am since i never really got the chance to. responsibilities will always creep in, you have to be super intentional about making time for you. maybe start with a once a week class on something that interests you. as busy as you are, you can find a couple hours one day a week. prioritize movement, eating well, and sleeping enough so you have more energy, and therefore time during the day.

both? i was diagnosed super young, and by the time i got to college some people around me spent so much time on their phones or dodged so much homework it made me feel i was on a more even playing field lol

thats good to hear!! definitely shooting for ensemble/small role lol

i feel like i need something serious in my life. i was intense teenager turned lollygagging college student and feel like i havent accomplished anything in years lol

thanks for your reply!

in a way, we are. our literacy rates are staggeringly low and getting worse year over year due to our education system being a failure on many levels.

yall need to get off the high horse and take a joke sometimes. you terrorized the entire world via colonization for hundreds of years through modern day, if people harmlessly stereotype the german or french, make fun of british people, or tease the dutch language, yall can handle it

for context, im american. we get bullied all the time, and while not all americans are fat and stupid, the combination of that many are and that we’ve terrorized the world plenty make me think a lil teasing is fair

1 income should make life doable. 2 incomes should be a dream. dink life ftw

girl me too 😭 lets swap chromosomes

I’m so sorry that happened, truly. Honestly, though, you deserved to have better medical guidance during that time and it really isn’t your fault for not knowing. I think that at that point, though, it was way more important for her to be comfortable above all else. She was lucky to have you there.

i got 6 pairs about 5 or 6 years ago I wear all the time. still in great shape!

have u tried good ole fashion wool?

ive had a few times where the person just felt a lil creepy and i felt safer just dropping off

i was a personal trainer for a bit and honestly if you were my client id ask you to go get guidelines from a physical therapist first. swimming and light calisthenics should be fine, but listen to your body first and do not push it/make it hurt

that all that studying and academic pressure had basically zero payoff other than at least im employed

my parents had me convinced id magically save the world. made me feel like id never have to try, so i didnt. we see how that worked out lol

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huh

people who go outside with zero spatial awareness. if youre going to walk slow, stay to the side. if you go up to get a closer view and take a pic, gtfo once ur done so others can get closer

i used to be so anxious and shy i could hardly say a word to my best friends from childhood. you embarrass yourself over and over till it starts to get a little easier. now i can talk to a group of people i dont know well with only a little anxiety